All adults, including elderly, should have the opportunity to enjoy a satisfying and fulfilling sex life. With age, the interest in sex and sexual activity declines to some extent in few of the adults and this is normal. Understanding the sexual responses and managing accordingly with help if needed is part of healthy aging.
Unfortunately, patients may feel uncomfortable talking to the doctors about their sexual problems. This is not uncommon, especially in women. But a satisfying sexual intimacy is an important and rewarding aspect of healthy aging, and treatment can often help.
In men it is mostly erectile dysfunction, which is also called as impotence. And in women it is lack of interest, difficulty with lubrication, inability to reach a climax (orgasm), lack of pleasure, reduced sensation, pain during intercourse. Sexual problems are very common.
Erectile dysfunction by far is the most common sexual difficulty in men, and it increases with age. Nearly 75% of men have problems with erections at some time by the age of 70 years. Also, older men take part in sexual activity much more rarely than they did when they were younger. While young men normally engage in sex 3-4 times per week, only 7% of men in their 60s and only 2% of men over age 70 report having sex this often. Sexual problems are common even in women but women usually avoid to talk about the sexual problems with the health providers.
Although you may feel hesitant about talking to a healthcare professional about a sexual problem, remember that you are not alone. Your sexual health is an important aspect of your overall well-being and a critical aspect of your relationship with your partner. Your healthcare provider will begin by asking about your sexual problems. Try your best to answer the questions as clearly and honestly as you can. Remember that everything said during the appointment will be held in strict confidence permanently.
In Women, after a detail history, other tests that may be needed include:
In Men, after a detail history
Few may need radiological tests to assess the blood flow in the penis.
Treatments can be very simple and effective. The choice of treatment depends on the underlying cause of the problem.
It is rare to have complications from treatments for sexual problems, but since some can be very serious, make sure you are fully informed. Priapism – if left untreated – can result in irreversible damage to the penis. Sudden serious low blood pressure which can occasionally accompany treatment with erectile dysfunction pills – especially if taken with nitrates for heart disease – can even be fatal. Make sure to report any side effects as soon as they occur. Sexual activity with non-permanent partners always carries the risk of an unwanted sexually transmitted disease.